Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Pregnancy and Abortions

I just found out a good friend of mine is pregnant with her second child. Her oldest baby just turned 1 in March. She was engaged to her "babys daddy" for a few months (the wedding I own a brides maids dress for and never wore) and he became abusive so she left him. Not even a mont later, she literally moved out of her babys daddy house and into her new boyfriends parents house, with her daughter. His parents watched her daughter while they went out and partied, people she didn't even know. Her life was basically a slow motion train wreck. So she is working on getting back together with her babys daddy and finds out she is pregnant from her boyfriend. She was trying to break up with him but he wanted sex so she gave it to him, he didn't want to use protection so she didn't make him. So obviously she got knocked up, its like a girl trying to get pregnant to keep a guy around. He doesn't want her to leave him if she is pregnant with his baby, she doesn't want to be with him because her daughter doesn't have her father around... she is talking about getting an abortion. I totally don't know what I would do in her situation but to have a daughter already and not keep your next baby because you don't like the father anymore. I just hope she makes the right decision. Her younger sister just had a baby 10 months ago and is pregnant with her second baby boy (both different dads, will be 13 months apart in age) and her older brother has two kids by two different women so its not like her family will be disapointed in her. There is an older sister who doesn't have any kids and two younger brothers who aren't old enough to knock up chicks yet. 6 kids, 3 on baby #2, 3 w/o any babies if you're trying to follow.

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