Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Cheating

Today was Day 1 of offical unemployment, since I don't work on Mondays normally, although it feels like it has been a week. I have applied for several jobs online so keep your fingers crossed that in 2-3 weeks I will get a call. I want to organize and clean the entire house top to bottom but this rain has me unmotivated (when really it should make me want to clean since I can't do anything else)

A guy I use to work with at the Bank, he was my old man crush (OMC) early 40s good looking with a cute little BMW, who was also the Bank Presidents son-in-law moved his office out of the Bank not too shortly after I started working there. There was also a guy who worked there for several weeks across from me before he left to work as a Bank Examiner. His wife worked for my OMC in his new office and would come in to make deposits daily, which make sense for a business but to come into the office and than visit with your boss for an hour... when you could just make a drive-thru deposit. It ALWAYS seemed weird to me especially since after he moved his office she quit coming by and just did drive-thru. She would walk through and say Hi to her husband and than visit with her boss for an hour... I always assumed there was something going on. So about 6 months ago I found out that my OMC was getting a divorce, explains his moving his office out of his Father-In-Laws Bank. An old work friend stated that OMC was getting a divorce for having an affair and I immediatly thought of the lady who came in to see him. Work friend said there was no way because she was married w/ a little boy etc. etc. I told him to watch it because I was sure that is who it was, had to be, I had always thought they were having an affair even over a year ago! Sure enough this lady and her husbands divorce is offical today. The guy works with Blake now and they travel a lot for work. So Work friend and I were talking about the fact that she will get the kid & the house so the kid doesn't have to move. So this guy had his wife cheat on him with an old-coworker & her boss to get a divorce and lose his kid and house...Why is that fair?? I hate the way this worked out for this guy. I know so many people who get a divorce now-a-days because of an affair. I know they say that financial issues are a major cause of divorces but honestly I think its infidelity. I can't think of a single couple right now that got a divorce because of anything other than cheating from one or the other.

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